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Beyond the Briefs: Why Building Relationships is Your Most Valuable Legal Skill

6 minutes

Remember that feeling in law school? Surrounded by brilliant minds, all vying for the same prestigious internships, clerkships, and ultimately, that coveted job offer? It felt like a race, didn’t it? We were so busy trying to outshine each other with our legal prowess that we often overlooked a critical aspect of success – building genuine relationships.

We crammed our brains with case law, honed our legal writing skills to a razor’s edge, and perfected the art of the rebuttal. And while these are all essential tools in a lawyer’s arsenal, they only tell part of the story. Because here’s the truth: the legal profession, for all its complexities and nuances, is ultimately a people business. It’s about building trust, understanding your clients’ needs, and advocating effectively on their behalf. And none of that is possible without strong interpersonal skills and a robust network of connections.

Fast forward to today, and let me tell you, mastering the art of networking is just as crucial as mastering the law itself. In fact, I’d argue it’s even more important. Think about it: a brilliant legal mind with no connections is like a powerful engine with no fuel – it’s going nowhere fast.

Now, I’m not just talking about attending stuffy industry events and exchanging business cards with clammy hands, hoping something sticks. I’m talking about cultivating authentic connections within the legal community and beyond. I’m talking about building relationships based on trust, mutual respect, and a genuine desire to help each other succeed. Because, my friends, those connections are the invisible threads that weave the fabric of a thriving legal career.

Why Networking Matters More Than You Think

1. Referrals, Referrals, Referrals: 

Let’s face it, the lifeblood of any successful legal practice is a steady stream of clients. And while marketing, advertising, and online presence all play their part, nothing beats a warm referral from a trusted source. When someone vouches for you, especially within the legal world, it carries significant weight. People are more likely to trust a recommendation from someone they know, like, and respect than a cold call or a flashy website. When you invest time in building strong relationships, you’re essentially planting seeds for future referrals.

Think of it this way: every person you connect with is a potential gateway to a new network of clients. They might have a friend, family member, or colleague who needs legal assistance in your area of expertise. Perhaps they overhear a conversation at a social gathering where someone mentions needing a lawyer. Because they know and trust you, your name comes to mind immediately. By nurturing those relationships, you increase the likelihood of those referrals coming your way.

2. Expanding Your Circle of Expertise: 

The legal field is vast and ever-evolving. It encompasses a dizzying array of specialties, from corporate law to environmental law to intellectual property, and everything in between. No single lawyer can be an expert in everything. However, by building a diverse network, you gain access to a wealth of knowledge and experience that extends far beyond your own. Need a second opinion on a complex case? Looking for a specialist in a niche area of law to consult with? Your network becomes your go-to resource, allowing you to confidently tackle challenges and expand your service offerings.

Imagine this: you’re working on a complex contract dispute that involves intellectual property rights. You’ve never dealt with IP law before, and you’re feeling a bit out of your depth. But because you’ve cultivated a diverse network, you have a colleague who specializes in IP law. A quick phone call, and they’re able to provide invaluable insights and guidance, saving you time, money, and potentially even the case itself.

3. Staying Ahead of the Curve: 

The legal landscape is constantly shifting. New laws, regulations, and precedents emerge regularly. What worked yesterday might be outdated tomorrow. Actively engaging with your network keeps you informed about industry trends, emerging technologies, and best practices. It’s like having your finger on the pulse of the legal profession, giving you a competitive edge. Think of it as a continuous learning opportunity, fueled by the collective wisdom of your peers. You’ll hear about new legislation, changes in case law, and innovative legal strategies that you might not have otherwise come across.

For instance, your network might alert you to a groundbreaking new legal technology that streamlines document review, saving you countless hours of tedious work. Or perhaps they share their experience with a new negotiation tactic that yields impressive results. These insights, gleaned from the collective wisdom of your network, can keep you ahead of the curve and position you for greater success.

4. Building Your Reputation (and Confidence): 

In the digital age, your reputation precedes you. Active networking helps you establish yourself as a thought leader and a valuable member of the legal community. When you consistently show up, share your insights, and contribute to conversations, people take notice. This visibility not only enhances your reputation but also boosts your confidence, empowering you to embrace new challenges and opportunities.

Imagine attending a legal conference and being recognized for your expertise because you’ve actively participated in industry forums and shared your knowledge online. Perhaps you’re invited to speak on a panel, your article is published in a prestigious legal journal, or you’re approached for your expert opinion by a journalist. That kind of recognition can do wonders for your confidence and open doors to new opportunities.

5. Finding Mentorship and Support: 

We all need guidance and support throughout our careers, especially in the demanding field of law. Early on, a mentor can help you navigate the complexities of the legal world, offering invaluable advice and sharing their hard-won wisdom. As you progress, having a supportive network of peers can provide encouragement, a sounding board for ideas, and a shoulder to lean on during challenging times. Remember, you don’t have to navigate the complexities of the legal world alone.

Networking can connect you with experienced mentors who have walked the path you’re on and can offer invaluable insights and guidance. They can help you avoid common pitfalls, navigate challenging situations, and make strategic career decisions. They can also provide much-needed encouragement and support during those inevitable moments of self-doubt or frustration.

Beyond Handshakes: Tips for Authentic Networking

Now that you understand why networking is so crucial, let’s talk about how to do it effectively. Remember, the goal is to build genuine, mutually beneficial relationships, not just collect business cards.

1. Start with Your Existing Network: 

You might be surprised by the untapped potential within your existing circle. Reconnect with former classmates, law professors, and past colleagues. Attend alumni events and reconnect with your alma mater. These familiar faces can be valuable sources of referrals and industry insights. Remember, relationships are like muscles: they atrophy when not used.

  • Reach out individually: Don’t underestimate the power of a simple email or phone call. Reconnect with people you haven’t spoken to in a while, let them know what you’re up to, and ask about their journey as well.
  • Make it a habit: Schedule time in your calendar to reach out to at least one person from your network every week, even if it’s just for a quick chat.
  • Offer value: Don’t just reach out when you need something. Look for opportunities to help the people in your network, whether it’s sharing a relevant article, connecting them with someone they should know, or offering your expertise.

2. Be a Joiner (and an Active Participant): 

Join bar associations, legal organizations, and industry-specific groups. Attend conferences, seminars, and workshops. But don’t just be a name on a list; actively participate in events, contribute to discussions, and volunteer your time. Genuine engagement is key to building meaningful connections.

  • Come prepared: Before attending an event, do your research. Who else will be attending? Are there specific topics or speakers that align with your interests?
  • Don’t be afraid to start conversations: Remember, everyone is there to connect. Strike up conversations during breaks, meals, or even while waiting in line.
  • Follow up: After the event, connect with the people you met on LinkedIn or via email. Reference something specific you discussed to keep the conversation going.

3. Master the Art of the Follow-Up: 

Exchanging business cards is just the first step. Follow up with new contacts within 48 hours of meeting them. Personalize your message, referencing something specific you discussed, and propose a coffee meeting or phone call to continue the conversation. Remember, people are busy, so be persistent but respectful of their time.

  • Make it personal: Avoid generic follow-up emails. Instead, remind them of something you discussed or a shared interest.
  • Offer value: Share a relevant article, suggest a resource, or offer to connect them with someone in your network.
  • Don’t give up too soon: If you don’t hear back after the first attempt, don’t be afraid to follow up again in a week or two.

4. Be a Giver, Not Just a Taker: 

Networking is a two-way street. Always approach relationships with a mindset of giving value. Share your expertise, offer helpful resources, and connect people within your network who might benefit from knowing each other. Generosity goes a long way in building strong, lasting relationships.

  • Be a connector: If you know two people who could benefit from knowing each other, introduce them!
  • Share your knowledge freely: Offer your insights and expertise on industry forums, social media, or even in casual conversations.
  • Be genuinely interested in others: People can tell when you’re genuinely interested in them and their work. Ask thoughtful questions, listen attentively, and be present in the moment.

5. Embrace Social Media (Strategically): 

Platforms like LinkedIn provide a powerful way to connect with legal professionals worldwide. Optimize your profile, share insightful content, engage in relevant discussions, and use the platform to nurture relationships beyond geographical limitations. However, remember that social media should complement, not replace, in-person interactions.

  • Create a strong profile: Your LinkedIn profile is your online resume. Make sure it’s up-to-date, professional, and highlights your expertise.
  • Share valuable content: Share articles, blog posts, or even your own thoughts on industry trends and challenges.
  • Engage in discussions: Join relevant LinkedIn groups and participate in discussions. Offer your insights, ask thoughtful questions, and engage with other members.

The Verdict 

In the competitive world of law, your network is your net worth. It’s the secret sauce that can elevate your career from good to exceptional. So, go beyond the briefs, my friends. Invest time in building genuine connections, and watch your legal career flourish. Remember, success in law isn’t just about knowing the law; it’s about knowing the right people and nurturing those relationships with authenticity and care.

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Kerri is a proud member of TLP and has been serving the legal industry in marketing, intake and business development for over a decade. As CEO of KerriJames, she is relentless in her pursuit of improving intake so law firms can retain more cases without buying more leads. If your firm shares her hunger for growth, reach out and speak with Kerri.

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